Smart and outwardly gentle. I studied at UCL and lived in Asia for some time. But I'm here, so that's clearly not the whole story! I was averse, or oblivious to the opposite sex when I was in my teens and twenties. I ignored every advance ever made, and frustrated a lot of people. I actually had no idea at the time, always wondered why girls like to hang out with me but I was happy for the friends. They never stuck around for long and commonly ghosted me after a while. The problem was I always thought being virtuous was most important. Bare with me, I'm indiscernibly normal, but the tinge of Aspergers shaped me to be very idealistic. I didn't start to realise I was the abnormal one until my late 20's. I got a girlfriend when I was 27 and finally lost my virginity. My first two relationships were abusive, but I learned that women enjoy sex as much as men, and I was good at it! I learned a lot about women from reflection and luckily I'm an empathetic person - this helps in bed ;) Turn the clocks to today, and I'm finally ready to go out and make up for my lost 20's. I want to meet people, knowing what we want, and enjoy romance, sex, desires without the stupid feelings that I used to have. Not to regret the past, I want to make the most of my age! Who knows, I might find the right person along the way.

My Ideal Person I don't have an ideal person, but I rate intelligence and cleanliness highest .