The Multiple Orgasm Roller Coaster Is there anything as fun as getting into that grove where the woman you are going down on is having one orgasm after another. It feels like the end of each orgasm is the beginning of th e next. It feels like a roller coaster with cycles of extreme excitement and then release, relief, and a slow climb to the next peak. It seems like the core skill related to this relates to how well you manage that time right after the orgasm (especially the first one). The clit gets super sensitive and how you proceed from there will dictate if you are allowed to keep going. Thoughts? Tips? Anyone with a lot of experience on one or both sides of this kind of experience?

It's always been my position that 69 is not a great way to give or receive oral sex especially for the woman. If one person is doing an exceptional job, the other is very distracted. At best, it seems like the woman is going to get some pleasure (but probably not an orgasm), while giving head. In other words, perhaps it's more fun for the woman to give head in this position. Personally, I'd rather be able to focus all my energy on the pleasure of my partner and then relax and focus all my energy on the pleasure my partner is giving me. Please vote and/or add comments. Especially interested in the female perspective.

S.O.S. Super Orgasmic State I've been lucky enough to put a couple women into what I call a "Super Orgasmic State." After having several orgasms, they get to a place where it takes very little to bring on additional ones. As an example, in this state, I was recently able to bring a woman to orgasm multiple times with just nipple stimulation. I'd like to share my theory for how to reach SOS, and look forward to comments from people who have tried and/or experienced it. My Theory The key to multiple orgasms in short succession, has to do with the few seconds after an orgasm. Everything (especially the clit) gets super sensitive instantly after orgasm. This is when direct contact is uncomfortable. It's when the woman will push you away if you continue to pick her clit. I should note, the intensity of the orgasm is a factor here. Sometimes milder orgasms also don't result in as much sensitivity. This may be the more common factor in "traditional" multiple orgasms. In other words, she has 3-4 small ones, followed by a big one, and fun time is over. What we're after here is additional big orgasms in short order. A strong orgasm every minute or two. The trickiest time is after the first big orgasm. This is when the natural tendancy (for the woman as well as the man) is to stop. We're done. If you can, instead, massage the pussy (without directly touching the clit), you can start things moving again. After a couple more orgasms, it's enough to just stop moving your tongue, while making it flat and firm on the clit. This allows her to start moving when that friction doesn't feel uncomfortable. As she starts to get into this state, the clit will remain somewhat sensitive. You need to be constantly aware of not over-stimulating it. Sometimes the g-spot stimulation will feel less "nervy" and is another route for providing the right level of sexual stimuli. Beyond the nipple orgasms, I was also able to massage the outside of her pussy with my whole hand and bring her to orgasm. She said the nipple orgasm is a completely different kind of experience. Kind of mild and relaxing. I've only put one or two other women in this state. I can't be 100% sure about one because we didn't test her state with "non-traditional" strategies to make her cum. She was having an orgasm every minute or two, so I suspect, she was in the same state. Key takeaway: Carefully adjust the amount (mostly reduce) of stimuli (as well as what you are stimulating) as she continues to have orgasms. As I said, I just have a theory at this point. It could be there's another aspect of it that I'm missing and/or it doesn't work for most women. Please comment with questions, insights, or suggestions.

Strategic Use of Pressure I've found that the strategic use of pressure (generally with the palm of the hand, but sometimes with a shoulder or other body part), to be a welcomed addition to oral sex. While performing oral, you can add some pressure in a way that simulates the way it feels when your pelvis presses against hers during sex. This is especially effective when she starts moving in a kind of sex-like motion (thrusting towards and away from you). Right after she has an orgasm, pressing your whole hand against her pussy can be a way to keep sexual tension while allowing her---currently super sensitive ---clit to recover and warm up for the next orgasm. If you are laying next to her, you can insert your middle finger at the same time, if her pussy itself isn't too sensitive, and try to hit her g-spot (depending on how closer hers is to the surface and how long your fingers are). Thoughts? Comments? Are there other pleasurable ways you have used (or experienced) pressure) during oral sex?

Thumb Sucking After we've been at it for a while, when everything is super wet, there's this trick I've been able to pull off a couple of times. With a finger or two in your pussy, I have my thumb on your clit. Your pussy is wet and I can gently move my thumb away from your clit and back on to it, feeling the suction form. It's as though my thumb is sucking on your clit, while my fingers are rubbing your g-spot. Note: Your arm has to be positioned with your forearm below to the pussy in order to make this work. Have you ever tried this or experienced it?