The Youngin’ phase

(The friend version)

Never in her wildest fantasies did she see this coming. She have had some fantasies in her hay days, but this was totally out of her wheelhouse. (So I was told, her version goes something like this)

The young man, I’ll call him, was pretty green for 20somethin. History: One past girlfriend, not sure when, but she didn’t teach him much. LOL! He probably had more experience from youtube than her, if the truth be known. But, that wasn’t what captured her attention.

(Personally, AS for me, I don’t fall easy, under no man).

For months they texted, as that’s the norm these days for the younger generations. Why can’t they/men afford the time to make a voice call. But yet, will spend 30 min getting 3 sentences out on text. Like damn, how you gonna pillow talk in the dead of night, get excited, have a masturbation moment? Text? For real, real? Several meetings happen from what I gather, just talk, watch a movie, hang out. Maybe a good night kiss at the door. But nothing to speak of… just getting to know each other quirks. Was this dating? Who knew? Heck, at this point I wanted to meet the boy and get him signed up on AFF. Ya know, help a girl out kinda thing.

Then, it happen… their first encounter. Well, she had me in stitches! So, here you go. Finally, he was going to spend the night. They were going to actually… going to have sex, SEX! All the boundaries were set, the rules of engagement laid out, agreed upon… she had waited, but could she remember how to do this, this sex thing? Damn, it had been years and here she was with someone that was much, too much, off her age radar. If she had ever turned the damn radar on to begin with. LOL!

In the bed, under the sheets, hands going everywhere. But did they know where they were going? Better yet, did they know why? Wait, where’s the foreplay? Legs spread, a body comes above, makes contact … there’s barely entry into her pussy, and surely not every inch went in, a few up and down movements, and he was spent! Just like that. No warning at all, she testified. It was over. Maybe he was a virgin, she thought? Maybe it was the build up over the months? Naw… that wasn’t it. He was just inexperienced, green. From the cliff notes, I had to agree.

LOL! So now what? What does a woman say, so she doesn’t hurt his young pride, but yet, get the point across that hey, you gonna fuck with an older woman, you need to bring your “A Game” child.

Needless to say, I personally laughed my ass off at this story. I suppose it’s been too long ago that I was young and clueless as to how to make a man’s fantasy a real one. I know we all have to start somewhere, with someone willing to give us a start. However, I don’t advise this course of action, it’s not a mature woman’s cup of tea to teach a young man how to appreciate a woman’s body. AND not every man will even speak up during sex… it’s like taboo or something. Where’s the excitement in that? All talk out of bed and damn near a permanent mute in the bed. I just shake my head at this action.

All this nonsense, not even a play by play action story, made me wonder about my friend. She’s in her mid 30’s, and come to find out, she’s pretty damn green about sex herself. I’m still explaining things to her.

If I forgot something, should have told her what to do, or any suggestions, please let me know.

Happy “Nekkie Friday” my lovelies … till next time, sultry wishes for you.
06.20.25 Maggies2Wishes