Catchy Title, isn't it? I've noticed from past blog posts that the ones which get the most views are the ones with the interesting titles. No one read "My Old Photography Days"(142 views-even though I posted a pretty hot photo), "To My Followers"(3 views) or my earlier ones about chatrooms. It's the catchier titles that hook you into having a look, not unlike YouTube.
That's why I decided to see what would happen with a clickbait title. Guys would want to know the secret, while the ladies will think "What bullshit is this?"
But for both sides, we all know the answer is quite simple. Things you can start with (at minimum) are: Be respectful...this means right from the beginning-she's not a hooker you've paid for. The men in chatrooms on here can be quite the neaderthal. If she wants to talk smut, let HER bring that up. Maybe don't start the conversation with asking what she likes in bed" There's a line in a Monty Python movie where the scene is in a sex ed class, and the instructor (John Cleese) asks how to get the vaginal juices flowing. One of the students (Eric Idle) answers "Rubbing the Clitoris, Sir?", to which Cleese replies "What's Wrong with a kiss, boy? Why not start off with a nice kiss?"
I had a friend long ago who we set up on a date with one of my wife's friends. We actually made it a double date, to make it easier if they weren't fairing so well. On that date...(their first one, mind you) he asked her if she liked anal. Well, that was the end of that. And this is exactly what I'm talking about guys. "Start off with a nice kiss" versus going straight for the vagina.
Even if you're meeting a woman for the first time from here, or some other adult dating site...sex isn't guaranteed, so maybe give her some time to warm up to you. Take the last woman I met for example. We actually met in a hotel room, but I wasn't sitting there fully naked with my cock in my hand when she arrived, thinking we'd get busy right away. I knew she was nervous, as was I. I hadn't even heard her voice yet! I brought wine, and we sat and chatted while sipping wine for a good bit, getting to know one another and let our nerves settle. Over the next hour (probably longer) she told me about her son's hectic school schedule, her job, which eventually led to past relationships and what she was interested in currently...a friend with benefits. The conversation then drifted to sex, and what turned her on. Next thing you know, we were naked, and ended up spending the night together, going at it like rabbits three times throughout the night.
Patience fellas, she controls the pace of this encounter, and even IF you're even going to have and encounter.
Back to the title of this blog...I don't know what thing you MUST do to get her into bed, I just know what works for me. But it got your attention didn't it?
Yours in Perversion,
Sir Goingdown
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I actually want to to the guy for a bit , before sex..If I decide to sleep with them, that does not mean I am going to be submissive with them..Talking and communication is the key with me.
Those in dire need of advice don't read, sadly. And they're the ones constantly whining about not getting laid.
This is very true. They get their info from the misogyny in porn. Not every woman wants to be treated like an object to be tossed around like a rag doll for a man's pleasure. These same guys should watch the porn produced by women...they might learn a thing or two.
Catch titles are always good to get people's attention. Porn pictures, always heterosexual and man's porn pictures, lifted from elsewhere also seem to be a good draw for views and comments.
I rely on humour to seduce a woman to bed. My humour admittedly often doesn't work!