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Sounds interesting, as I've read a few of your interviews...I'm in.

@SirGoingdown Many thanks for agreeing to be interviewed.
Is it okay if we do the interview on this blog post. I don't think you are a gold member for me to mail you over on the Dating side or to use a private mailbox here on the Community side.
I'll need do a bit more 'research' before I mail you the questions. But there'll be 20 questions, both sexual and non-sexual questions, to answer in your own good time. Also, when I post the interview on my blog, I'll ask other bloggers if they have any questions for you. Hopefully, you'll answer those questions on my blog as well.
Finally, I'll ask you for at least two photos of yourself (or of anything connected to you) to upload with the interview.
I'll be in touch again soon with my questions. Once again, thanks for saying 'yes' to the interview. It's much appreciated.
PS. I've sent you a request inviting you to my friends network over on the site's Dating side. I hope you'll accept the invitation.

@spunkycumfun I'm fine with anything. Sorry about the gold thing, it just wasn't worth it to me.

@SirGoingdown After this reply about the interview, I'll add a further seven replies to this reply, each containing a batch of questions for you to answer. It's okay and perhaps best to reply with your answers to the questions in batches. There'll be 20 questions to answer in total.
If you don't want to answer a question, please feel free not to - I can easily give you replacement questions to answer.
Please take your time to answer the questions; there's no rush.
When replying to me with your answers to the questions below, it would be good if you could attach at least two photos of yourself (or of anything related to you) for the blog post. Or, if you prefer, I can select two photos from your profile and blog photos.
When I post the interview on my blog, I'll only edit any obvious typos if there are any. Otherwise, I'll present your answers word-for-word.
I’ll let you know just before I post your interview on my blog.
In the blog post, I'll ask other bloggers if they have any questions for you. It would be great if you could answer any questions on my blog.
Please feel free to pimp the interview on your blog or even re-post the interview once posted. The interview is yours.
Many thanks for going along with the interview.
I look forward to receiving your answers (plus photos).
Stephen

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1. Why did you choose your username? When and why did you join this site and, in particular, when and why did you decide to blog?

2. How successful has your search for what you're looking for been on this site? How many people have you met up with from this site? And, how many from this site have you had sex with?

3. What three words would you use and what three words would a close friend or partner use to describe your personality?

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4. What sort of things do you like doing in your spare time?

5. What is your favourite book, song, movie, television/streaming show and radio programme/podcast? And why are they your favourites?

6. What were you like as a kid? And when a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?

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7. If you had to live your life in another time and place, when and where would you be?

8. What is your favourite sex position? And why is this position your favourite?

9. What's been your best and worst ever sexual encounters? And why were they your best and worst experiences?

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10. Where has been the most unusual place you've had sex?

11. Roughly (or even better exactly), how many people have you had penetrative sex with? And what's the most number of times you've had sex in one day? What's the most number of people you've had sex with in one day?

12. From our exchanges in blogland, I know you've attended a sex club. What's been the best sex club you've attended, and why? And what's been your best and worst sex club experiences, and why?

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13. On your bio on the Community side, you write that you've been "lucky enough to collect years of great memories as a swinger". What sort of swinger were or are you? I'm presuming you were or are part of a swinging couple. If so, how did you come about to swing? How did you both swing - full or soft swap, or even just watching others having sex?, same room or different rooms?, and sex together with others or sex alone with another? How did swinging affect, positively or negatively, your relationship with your partner?

14. What's been the best group sex experience you've had, and why? What advice would you give people embarking on group sex for the first time?

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15. What has been your most embarrassing sexual moment?

16. What is your most treasured possession, and why is it the most treasured?

17. What is your perfect three-course meal? And what drink would you have with the meal?

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18. If you could invite three famous people, dead or alive, to join you at a dinner party, who would you invite?

19. If you had to have sex with three famous people, living or deceased, who would you choose? And when I say deceased, I mean having sex with them when they were alive and not having sex with them when dead!

20. As the last question, please can you volunteer three bits of information about yourself that haven't been covered in this interview?

@spunkycumfun I think this is going to be very interesting. And I know I'll be reposting the interview on my blog!

@SirGoingdown And I'll look forward to your interesting answers.

@spunkycumfun 1. My username was sparked by the series "Bridgerton" and the town gossip, Lady Whistledown. And here are the pics you requested (sorry, I don't have many of myself)
I first joined when AFF was in it's infancy, and have deleted my account many times since, then rejoined out of boredom. I decided to blog because I think I have some interesting stories to tell, and the dating part of this site became banal.

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2. I have been on and off this site for more than 20 years, and to be honest, I believe I've only met one. That was many years ago, and we're still very good friends.
3. Three words: About myself: Honest, Generous, reliable. I asked a long time partner, and got Caring, Sexy, Introverted.
4. In my spare time I like to work on my Youtube video content, (the editing is best part) Blog (of course) and photography/videography has always been a passion of mine.
5. Book: "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, Favorite song: Kashmir by Led Zepplin, Movie: "The Transporter" because of how well it infuses music into the chase scenes, great fight scenes and acting so poor, some of the lines are engrained in my memory.

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6. I was very introverted as a kid. Stayed to myself in school and had very few friends. I always relied on my imagination. I wanted to be a Police Officer when I grew up. And although it took many years for that to happen, it finally did and I enjoyed a great career, retiring in 2020.

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7. I would live my adult life in the 50's through 80's, when times were simpler and we all weren't walking around like zombies, slaves to our phones. I miss Walter Cronkite, kids being able to stay out until 10 at night without fear, no school shootings, and a time when elections were based on issues, not mudslinging.
8. My favorite sex position depends...if I want to last a long time so my partner can have all the fun she wants-her on top. If going for a good pounding with a great view-doggy. But for intimacy and the most skin on skin-missionary...that one's best for the greatest orgasms.
9. Best sexual encounter: Read my blog entry "Playing Doctor". She was a 27 year old hottie at the time we got together...that was one gret day (and night) WORST: The very first FMF threesome the wife and I engaged in. While she (the wife) was going down on our guest while I was behind her going at it doggie style, said guest farted...3 times in succession. Needless to say, that ended the night's activities. (Pro Tip: Never serve broccoli to a woman if you're going to have sex soon after.)

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10. Family bathroom is a large mall.
11. I'm gonna be completely honest on this one (which is embarrassing): During the time I've been in "the lifestyle", I stopped counting. Just counting the FMF threesomes the wife and I have had, eleven I believe. Then there are all the ones I played with after we opened our marriage up, then the ones from before we married, so I can't give a definitive number. Most times in one day? Five. Number of partners in one day? You mean at separate times that same day? Just two.
12. Best sex club: Play Champagne. Both their brick and mortar club in Ft. Wayne, Indiana (not there anymore) and the hotel takeovers they do. Epic parties and experiences. BEST experience was spending my birthday in the VIP room at Club Princeton (the old one, with the motorcycle which had a Sybian in the seat for the ladies, and plenty of other things to play with.) WORST was this private club/house converted into called "Ohio Swings" (if it's gotten better, I apologize) but MY experience included getting corned by a large guy in spiderman pajamas, Spiderman sneakers, and hat, wanting to discuss "Spiderman 2" as he'd seen it seven times. And the place was run by the swingers equivalent of the Addams Family.

@SirGoingdown Many thanks for your answers so far. I've copied-and-pasted them so if you edit your answers to questions 1 to 12, please let me know so I can track of any changes. Thanks.

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13. The wife and I entered the world of swinging after a conversation while having dinner. We weren't even married yet, and still in our wild stage. The conversation was about voyeurs, and she said "I'd enjoy watching you with another woman". So we started looking for a female third, and shortly after found one. After a couple of years just engaging in FMF threesomes, we decided to try a swing club, at the behest of and acquaintance of mine who actually owned the biggest club in the area. We then dove right in to full swap same room, and eventually to separate rooms, then simply dating outside of our marriage. But every so often, the voyeur came out, and we'd end up at the club with another couple, or female so she could watch. It must have been good for our marriage, as we're still going strong after 23 years.

14. The best "group sex" has been with another couple we'd known and been involved with on a regular basis. The sex got better, and even though we'd start out separate rooms, they'd end up peeking in the door after their "round 1" to find us still going. Eventually, they'd come in and hop in the bed with us, and we'd play naked twister, lol. One time we were all at the club, and another couple joined the four of us, so that was a pretty fun experience. Advice? Communicate..A LOT. If either has any convictions about it, don't do it until you're both on the same page. A good deal of people a bitten by jealousy and mixed emotions when they see their partner being pleasured by someone else.

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15. It's always the same thing: You're with a pretty hot new partner, and your normally reliable cock isn't feeling it.
16. Most prized possession is a pewter mug my father received as an award from Budweiser in 1971 for "A Million Cases Sold" when he was a route salesman/beer truck driver. It's my most treasured because I lost my father in 1973, and it's the only thing of his that I have.
17. Perfect 3-course meal: A pasta appetizer called "Pasta Salvi" which is only served at one restaurant in Columbus, Ohio, then a good steak with mashed potatoes and corn, followed by a good piece of cheesecake.

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18. Three people I'd invite to dinner: My grandfather, Paul McArtney and Robin Williams.
19. The 3 I'd like to have sex with: Gillian Anderson, Jessica Alba, Sela Ward
20. Three things about me: I love gadgets, I was orphaned at the age of eleven, I'm a weather freak, and always wanted to be a meteorologist.

@SirGoingdown Many, many thanks for your prompt answers, plus the two photos. Your answers make for interesting reading.
Regarding your interview, I'll post it on my blog on Monday. afternoon (my time), 9 December. I'm sure other bloggers will leave comments and even ask a few follow-up questions but you'll get tagged into these so you will receive an alert. I hope you'll be happy to answer any extra questions.
Please feel free to pimp the interview with a link on your blog or even re-post the interview in full once posted on my blog. Pimping your interview on your blog will increase the number of comments received. If you decide to re-post your interview in full on your blog, I'd be grateful if you could wait a few days after I post it on my blog. Thanks.
Once again, many thanks for doing this interview. It's much appreciated.
Stephen

@spunkycumfun I found it very interesting. I’m sure I’ll just link to your blog, versus posting it on mine. And of course I’ll answer whatever your readers care to ask.

@SirGoingdown I've just posted your interview on my blog - see AN INTERVIEW WITH SIR GOING DOWN.
Please feel free to pimp the interview on your blog.
You'll get alerted to any comments and questions. Thanks again for doing the interview.
Stephen

Now if I could do the same thig on Youtube...

@SirGoingdown oh?? YouTube?? Where do I find it?

@Msharleygurl1974 It's just getting started. Trying to finish up a video to upload now.

@SirGoingdown awesome...let me know when it's ready and I'll look for it