"You're Too Nice"

Dearest Horny Reader:

I just read a blog post which stated something along the lines of "Treat her like a Queen, and she'll treat you like a King". That has not been my experience AT ALL. I've developed a saying over my years of experience: "Someone has to be the dick" because there doesn't seem to be such a thing as treating eah other equally. I've actually dated women that it only took them a short time to tell me "You're too nice", and lose interest or walk away entirely.

Remember how you always heard that women like bad boys? Well, it must be true, because as an ex law enforcement officer I saw many bad boy situations, except we called them abusers. Why do women let a guy hit them...on multiple occasions, and stay for more? And manipulation is just as rampant. I know of a recent situation where a young lady was manipulated by a POS (piece of shit) and when she wised up and tried to walk away, he became her stalker, going as far as reporting untruths about her to her family and even her employer. This is what's referred to as "menacing by stalking" and in most states harassment is a violation of the law. Ladies, you should be able to end things whenever you want, with no hassles. The problem is that most of you go back because "you love him" or "he didn't mean it"

And yes, women do it to us guys too. It's a two way street, but in a lot of cases, the "scorned" woman who won't let us have a clean break starts sabotaging in different ways. Scratched cars, flattened tires and other vandalism. Oh, and if they have a key to your place, they just break your stuff, tear up your clothes, and even go as far as to file false police reports.

Take heed of the first red flag, or when your friends become concerned, or just don't like him/her. It could save you a lot of heartache.

Take it from me...I've been there.
Sir Goingdown