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By ChocolateCakeNE
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Observations and a little bitching here and there. Seeking affirmations and perspectives of the opposition. Given this is a personal journal on a public sex site, vulgar and crude language should be expected... More
Observations and a little bitching here and there. Seeking affirmations and perspectives of the opposition. Given this is a personal journal on a public sex site, vulgar and crude language should be expected... More
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•1 month ago1M ago

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Piece of Cake: Newbies

A week ago we welcomed a couple, new to swinging, to our home for their first real adventure. We leaned on our standard filtering and ice-breaking methods of group chats and Game Night to insure that we all clicked and this was something everyone wanted. I’m afraid however that it may have been too much and we had moved too quickly. I don’t want to use this space to describe the pure titillation and fun of the adventure we experienced. It would distract from the point I want to make. However, if the opportunity to meet again presents itself, we would both welcome it. Instead, I want to write about how this level of connection and sexual excitement affects those who might not be ready for it, mentally. Hell I don’t know about ...
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•1 month ago1M ago

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Piece of Cake: Foot Fetish

As you know by now, I look for your feedback on random shit that pops into my mind for your take on it. Affirmation is awesome, but real examples are better, good or bad. And today’s topic is foot fetishes. I often wonder if my perversion is getting worse. I mean, it's not like feet are another erogenous zone, I think…not sure actually, but we did something a few weeks back that has me wanting more. Foot fetishes are nothing new, and whenever I’ve come across articles or even porn involving feet, my reaction has always been, “bunch of sick, weirdos”. The pics have always been some guy smelling, licking, or getting his dick or balls stepped on by some girl with painted toenails and toe rings on. Assumed it fell into ...
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•1 month ago1M ago

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Piece of Cake: Lesson Learned

So for those of you who don’t read all the fine print in the terms of agreement that anyone offering anything internet related offers like me, I’ve got some news about this site. I recently posted my first blog that got rejected. So let me share with you why. Remember this is an educational blog designed to inform my followers about content that is not allowed on this site and nothing more. The article I wrote was a short and simple question to my readers if they had ever purchased a women’s panties and details about that. It was denied for the following reasons I was unaware were taboo here. The first was an example of a local couple that promoted the wife on various internet platforms in an attempt to make money. ...
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•2 months ago2M ago

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Piece of Cake: Watching You

So tell me I’m not the only one who looks at who views,your likes and who commented on something on your profile? FU you judgemental prick! Yes, I got an ego….is this the first article of mine you’ve read? Sorry, the meds are running late tonight. So why not sit down and devote a few minutes to writing. You know the mental therapy that is supposed to slow your thoughts down so your fingers can capture it. All it does is tell me just how much my typing teacher didn’t care. So I was saying…. Who is checking me out? Okay you still got to shuck a lot of clams to find a pearl, but it beats the fuck out of waiting for my feed (ego chow) to come for some other internet place. Nobody crawls into my FB inbox…most of my...
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•2 months ago2M ago

NE, USA

Piece of Cake: Camming

As some of you know we joined this site about a dozen years ago. We had tried other sites like swingvillage and lovevoodoo, but we found something here that the others did not have, live membership camming. Before that you might find yourself sharing a zoom private web party with someone who’s camera was less than inspiring. But here…here you can stand proudly naked for the entire site to see you. I fell in love with that. My husband, boyfriend back then, encouraged me to explore all aspects of my sexual kinks and while I had invited him to join the occasional girlfriend for a threesome, my exhibitionist side had been limited to screwing on the apartment’s balcony and hanging my tits out the sunroof as he drove down Omaha’s ...
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•3 months ago3M ago

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Piece of Cake: New Fantasy

A few years ago a new sex toy hit the market (yes, I bought it too). The toy, a vibrator, had a bluetooth receiver to activate the buzz. It’s what this site uses on the member cams to buzz a model. And yes, I’ve done that on cam too. But with all the talk about how AI is going to change the world, what happened to the advancements in remote sex toys? By now my Second Life avatar was supposed to allow me to wonder about having sex with strangers logged in from around the world while wearing my Super Wand 3000 or something, complete with due feedback to some guy wearing his male version. I was supposed to feel his thrusts and he my clamping pussy and orgasms. Just imagine it. Imagine instead of a chat or even video connection,...
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•4 months ago4M ago

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Piece of Cake: Sweet Tooth

I’ve taken on writing more as it's my own mental exercise. Taking quick thoughts that pass through my head and trying to sort them out by first writing them down and then joining them together like a puzzle to look back at the final product. If you are like me, subject to a thousand blubs a day racing through your thoughts, most are centered around the moment or issue at hand, but then there are those few that wonder in and are so obscure that you notice and note them as one of those, “what the fuck was I thinking?” moments. Some have made me wonder if I’m alone in my head or is there someone else in there having a totally different day. This preface is an offering of please excuse me…or my babblings as I wonder about in...
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•4 months ago4M ago

NE, USA

Piece of Cake: Teasing.

One of the things I love most about this website is the ability to chat (about sex) with a variety of people. As you can expect we get our share of one or two-word text/emails saying, “Nice tits” or “I’d eat you like ice cream” stuff that you give a one-word reply, “Thanks” if that much. I’m talking about the rarer connection with someone that can paint with his/her words. Those chats are better than the kindel smut books I’m addicted to because they are interactive. These people who think and create a message that not only stimulates my perversion, but feeds my ego too, are the ones that I will watch my inbox for the next morsel of sensation. Hubby often makes fun of the formula that my books and movies (like 365 ...
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•4 months ago4M ago

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Today’s slice of Cake: Decisions Been doing a lot of thinking lately about what to do with myself over the next few years. Hubby and I have been together for fourteen years now, so I feel secure in that aspect of my life. Dad passed away a few months back and mom moved a thousand miles away to live near my aunt. It’s pretty obvious that I can’t have children (God (and many of you) knows I’ve tried…lol) and the stepkids are almost grown. Been in this empty midwest state most of my life and for the first time it doesn’t feel like home anymore. I’m feeling more and more like I need a change. I want a different town, different scenery, different people/job/attitude. Life’s daily grind wears at your hope. Your dreams keep getting pushed down the road as the days and ...
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•5 months ago5M ago

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Season with Caution

I admire those who blog with discipline and commitment to a regular post. Awe be it daily, weekly, or whatever the pattern. Something generally has to send me off in my thoughts and keep me there long enough to consider writing about it. While this platform has served well for creative writing, accounts of adventures, and opinions, it’s mostly served as the vent of frustrations...i.e., Bitching. In these crazy times of extreme division between this class/race/religion/etc. and its opposite, it’s comforting to have this palice of perverts where everyone is gathered around one common theme, the pursuit of happiness through sexual satisfaction. If you are one of our many old “friends” here, you may have noticed that from time to ...
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•6 months ago6M ago

NE, USA

The Adult Hotel

The fictional story of The Search For New Adventures (Written by the male half) ----- “I can’t believe we’re actually doing this.” Tam said as we pulled through the gates of the private parking lot of the city’s hottest adult zones. “Wait… I don’t know if I can do this. Let’s just come back some other time,” she asked. “At least let me settle my nerves a bit more,” she said as she inhaled a vape full of Denver’s finest koosh. Like every upscale adult club, we arrived dressed to the nines. I’m in a sports coat and slacks while my wife Tam, is sporting the latest in barely dressed fashion…including a new pair of red bottom stilettos. I had purchased our membership online and read the rules, but this was our ...
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•6 months ago6M ago

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Been reading a lot of "romance" (wink, wink) books lately, and I think I've got a problem. Oh they work like a woman's viagra. Ever since "Fifty Shades" hit the charts there's no shortage of female erotica. I've got a book or two going at all times on Audible on my phone and another eleven on my handy kindle. So it's not a shortage problem either. Hubby pointed out that every hot guy in everyone of my stories has the same unrealistic characteristics; first, he's tall. Every mussel bound, six-pack chiseled, dark complected, slightly bearded, mysteriously bonded, extremely rich, and passion on steroids leading man is indeed tall. And sexy as fuck. He's commanding and fashionable. Women want him and men want to be him or at least seen with him. He lives a dangerous life full of mystery...
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•6 months ago6M ago

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Selfishness, Part 2 - MFF

----- So I explained what a typical MMF threesome looks like for us and why so in the first part. Honestly, didn't think there would be any more parts when I started it, but apparently my fingers are long winded. While I covered that hubby and I have a versatile swing style when it comes to adding another guy, starting as Hotwife/Cuckold with a Dom Mistress demanding her bi sub boys entertain her. And then moves to a Stag/Vixen as he sits back and tells me how to fuck the invited guy. And finally to a submissive myself wanting to be fucked hard and left wet and sticky before it starts all over again. Well with MFFs it's different. I'll start with hubby's role and get that out of the way. His role simply is to shut up. Not a ...
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•7 months ago7M ago

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Selfishness

----- I'll admit that when we joined this site...the lifestyle really...we did so for very selfish reasons. We were attempting to take a great sex life to higher levels and to never let it grow stale as each of our individual histories have experienced. But that selfish attitude overlooks the needs and desires of those we invite into our sex life. Everyone has a kink, a desire, and a fantasy they desire and are seeking to fulfill here or elsewhere. Acknowledged or not, selfishness is required for great sex. Every romance story centers around personal desires and damn the consequences. Selfishness is necessary for every orgasm. You can't cum if all you're doing is concentrating on your partner. And your partner's selfishness, displayed as ...
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•7 months ago7M ago

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So today's adventure here involves the guy that...without a hello or hi or any introduction at all says, "I've always wanted to be with a black girl sure wish she would be my first." So many of you will be thinking that's a compliment. Never done that and if I were to, you're the one that I want to take my racial cherry right. Sounds like...normally I'd never choose you, but you're the exception. You're that fine that you could make me stoop to that. Yeah, sounds like that. So hubby jumps in and to give him credit, gently corrects him and says nobody of any color or description wants to be referred to in that manner. And this guy (who wants to meet singly even is on a couple profile...like so many of you) replies first by denying that he meant to offend as racist, and says that his ...
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•7 months ago7M ago

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The Silhouette Admirer

----- Free account or paid, I can't understand why guys on here don't post pics and fill out their profile. It's like fishing without bating the hook and then wondering why you're not getting any bites. Come on "DaddyBD6969" if you really believe your dick is that impressive, enough to be part of your username, show it. BTW...that's a made up name, no offense intended or pointing out DaddyBD6969 if such a user exists.
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•7 months ago7M ago

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A Polite Rejection

----- Over the years here we've answered thousands of emails and chats, usually about 10 each day. When we see a pattern like, "what are you looking for?", we've modified our profile so if you read it, you'll know or at least ask a better opening question. We know that actually reading a profile takes time and people don't bother but lately we've received several inquiries from men (gold members) that want to hook up but are older. While we appreciate the compliments and attention, sadly we have to tell the guy that he is too old to be attractive to me. We understand the numbers game and what's to loose by asking. How would you go about telling Grandpa that you're looking for someone that can still fuck like a 20 yr old stud?
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•8 months ago8M ago

NE, USA
Okay so yesterday did not go the way we had wanted. And it was, for us, a reminder of just how hard it is to hookup at times. Yes this site has an ocean of willing participants. We get our share of attention here. However yesterday, we acted like the very type of people we find annoying. It was about lunchtime when I texted hubby and asked him if we were planning on having "company" today. That's our polite code for inviting a stranger over for sex. He knows what I like in men, women, and couples and asked me which I preferred. Naturally, I asked for a guy. With 90% of the membership here being males (single or playing that way), this is something that you would think could be done. I'll say that over the years my tastes have changed, kinks once exciting have grown dull, and ...
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•10 months ago10M ago

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I'd like to take a moment to voice our appreciation for this website. Yeah, its here to make money. We all seek to do the same in our own way. Over the years on this site, we've posted, chatted, and met several. We've explored our sexual lives and shared those adventures here. As a couple, we've canceled and returned several times, gotten jealous, gotten aroused, opened a camera to our bedroom and welcomed any that happened upon it and wanted a peek. We comment and encourage, write blogs, host a group, and check in daily. We've found most members are a reflection (maybe a bit bolder) of the everyday people around us. A few have even recognized us in public...that was a surprise, but handled with grace and politeness as we all have a public side that doesn't always embrace the ...
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•1 year ago1y ago

NE, USA
How is it that so many gold members don't have pics posted? Its a sex site, at least show your junk. And you wonder why you're not finding hookups..lol
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